Hey Rhonda! Now you know my dirty little secret!! I decided when I came back to the RD way of eating that I wasn't going to exclude foods that I know are good for me & that I very much enjoy. So, I am not in on any phase -- I eat 7 starches, 6 vegetables, 3 fruits & one dairy every day, but I don't worry about if each bit is an "allowed" starch. So, I actually eat a nut butter nearly every day cause it is easy for me & I enjoy it. My favorite thing to eat for lunch is 3 wasa crackers & I smear on the top of each a bit of natural peanut butter (or any nut butter *smiles*) and a bit of all fruit jelly. It's like a SUPER HEALTHY peanut butter and jelly & I love it. My other favorite thing to do at lunch with this meal is to have 6 ounces vanilla soy milk (in place of my dairy for the day) -- yummy!!
The nut butters haven't slowed down my weight loss yet. If I hit a plateau I may decide to change things up a bit. I don't have them EVERY day, but I do have my PB&J most days.
Basically, I decided that if I were going to stick to this I was going to have to make choices that work for my life & fit my needs. There are some things that I absolutely enjoy that do not throw me off track, but that I denied myself previously (things like nut butters or Veggie burgers because they were too high in sodium). I make a concerted effort to eat as much no sodium added foods during my day, but if I have to have a bit more sodium than is called for to make my meal happen then I do that.
Since I am probably consuming more sodium than the recommended, I do drink more water than I used to. At the end of the day a calorie is a calorie & I have found that by sticking to the basic 7 starches, 6 vegetables, 3 fruits and 1 dairy each day I am able to be satisfied, not count calories, not have crazy cravings AND lose weight.
I'm happy

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